GETTING MARRIED

"Marriage is not a noun, its a verb.

It isn't something you get, its about something you do.

It's the way you love your partner everyday"

- Burbara De Angelis

Perkahwinan bukanlah sesuatu yg mudah. Yg kau rasa kau boleh buat endah tak endah. Harini kau kawen lepas tu setahun akan datang kau bosan kau cari lain. Harini kau mintak dia dari wali dia, setahun akan datang kau pulangkan dia just bcz she can't pregnant. And etc. Don't bother to get married just bcz all of your friends were married, or they are getting married. Why should you follow others if you know where you belong. You know where you at. Come on, think wisely la beb. Do it IF you think you can handle it. If you think so, then you may proceed. Ini diri sendiri pun haru-biru lagi, janganlah sibuk nak jaga anak orang. Karang tak pasal kebulur pulak anak orang tu.

LADIES & GENTLEMAN, if you think marriage just to fulfill your desires, you're wrong. Marriage is beyond than that, it's more than you think. Everything will not be perfect all the time thou. Never. Sedangkan masa kau single pun dah berapa juta masalah yg kau hadapi, inikan pulak bila kau hidup berdua. Masalah akan berganda. Marriage is about sharing, of everything. Girls, dah ready nak hold your responsible as a wife, as a mother. Are you ready to deliver your babies. Braders, dah sedia nak tanggung semua dosa si dia? SEMUA tau. Makan minum pakai tempat tinggal. 

If you think you nak kawen just bcz bangun ada orang kejutkan (both), your meals ada orang tolong siapkan (both), duit belanja husband you kasi, and both of you gonna be happy all the time, yaa it would be, but it also wouldn't be. Marriage is not as simple as that guys. Trust me. Sooner or later you'll have kids, and definitely you must have a place to stay. Well, you guys will not stay forever kot dgn parent / perent in law. No marriage face no difficulties. Gila apa hidup nak lancar je, mana ada. Fikirlah bebaik. Bila rasa dah siap sedia semuanya, then okay. Barakallahulakum to those who getting married, semoga Allah berkati kalian sepanjang hayat, bersabarlah dlm membina rumah tangga.